There is a silence that echoes in the hearts of men and women.
Not the silence of peace — but the silence of pretending.
Of holding back truth.
Of building walls where love was meant to flow.
We sit across from each other, speak the words we’re supposed to say,
and yet, something remains unspoken.
A sadness. A distance. A lie — not shouted, but whispered into our choices.
Why do men and women live this way?
The Walls We Build
From the time we are young, the world teaches us roles.
Men are taught to be strong. Not to cry.
Women are taught to be kind. Not to speak too much.
And so we begin to build.
Layer by layer, moment by moment,
we put up walls around our hearts.
Not because we don’t wish to be close,
but because we are afraid to be seen.
To be hurt. To be judged.
And yet — what we hide becomes our prison.
The Lies We Live
Most lies are not spoken.
They are lived.
A smile that hides the ache.
A marriage kept for society, not for love.
A conversation filled with empty words — when the soul is screaming to be heard.
We lie not because we are dishonest —
but because we do not feel safe enough to be truthful.
And still, the truth waits.
It does not shout.
It simply waits — like a lamp in a dark room, ready to be lit.
The Cost of Fear
When love becomes fear,
when truth becomes silence,
we begin to lose ourselves.
We share homes, but not hearts.
We share beds, but not dreams.
We share lives — but remain strangers within.
This is not life.
This is survival.
And the soul was never born to survive.
It was born to be free.
The Way Back
So what is the way?
It begins with one step: awareness.
To sit quietly with yourself and ask:
What am I pretending not to feel?
What truth have I buried in silence?
What would love choose, if fear did not exist?
To walk the path of truth is not easy.
It is the way of the warrior. The monk. The awakened soul.
It requires us to let go of the masks,
to break the walls we’ve lived behind for years.
But in return, it offers something rare:
Real connection. Real peace. Real love.
A Final Whisper
If there is a wall between you and someone you love,
do not wait for them to tear it down.
Begin with your side.
Speak with truth.
Act with love.
Hold space for silence, and let your presence become healing.
When one soul becomes free,
it invites the other to follow.
And this —
this is how men and women return to each other.
Not through power.
Not through pride.
But through the sacred courage
to be real.
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